Every comedy needs a chaotic breakout character: not necessarily the lead, but a force of nature who races through the motion and reshapes every scene in his own image. “Animal House” had an almost feral John Belushi as Bluto; “The Hangover” starred Zach Galifianakis’ bearded, confused best man Alan.

And The Last Day of Retrograde, available now on Amazon Prime Video And Apple TV+has Joshie, played by 32-year-old Marinwood native Kaya Mey. Mey isn't the one Marin talent involved within the film. Producer Haley Baldwin grew up in Novato and co-star Sidney Pippin is a Marin native and graduate of Marin Shakes and Marin Theater.

The film takes place in Palo Alto amongst a circle of friends whose interactions are all characterised by their lack of mutual desire; It's a romantic comedy with seemingly infinite variations. It's actually set on the last day of the planet's most shameful season and, like Ingmar Bergman's “Smiles of a Summer Night” or Norman Jewison's “Moonstruck,” uses the movements of the spheres as a proof for why everyone behaves so strangely.

Mey initially liked the casting call since it focused on queer characters.

“I said, 'Can I play one of the characters written for a man?'” says Mey, who identifies as non-binary. “I went into the audition and the director said I could play any of the characters, so I chose Joshie.”

Joshie is a living cartoon character, stuffed with eye-rolling and gunplay, and Mey embodies the character so completely that it was a bit surprising to choose up the phone for our interview and never hear Joshie's exaggerated, colloquial speech.

“I feel like Joshie is all in me,” says Mey. “But I don’t always present myself as Joshie because in society it’s easier to present yourself in a more feminine way.”

The alternative of a male role has a poetic meaning for Mey. When they began acting in middle school, their first monologue was being asked to deliver Hamlet's famous soliloquy, “Now I am alone.” Although the feminine roles in Shakespeare's plays were played by men in his time, Mey's teachers found it difficult to simply accept a feminine-seeming non-binary person within the role of the melancholic Dane.

“Many of my teachers told me that I would never play Hamlet because of my biology,” says Mey. “The fact that I got to play Joshie was really special for me.”

Mey studied Commedia dell'arte, a Sixteenth-century Italian comedic form, on the Dell'Arte International School of Physical Theater in Blue Lake. Mey wrote an entire commedia dell'arte sequence for the film, which the characters perform as a part of an application residency and which deals with the characters' personal grievances with each other.

Although Mey's comedic performance within the film probably involves a bit more hip movement than is typical for this venerable art, they are saying it's not an enormous exaggeration.

Commedia dell'arte relies on archetypes, each of which embodies a specific personality trait or aspect of society. Although Mey personally sympathizes with Columbina, a down-to-earth female stock character, Mey associates Joshie with Il Capitano, the epitome of male agitation, whose boasting the opposite characters easily see through.

“I think Joshie likes to present himself as very outgoing and capable, but he definitely trips over himself a lot,” Mey says. “That dynamic is definitely a Joshie thing.”

Acting will not be Mey's only hobby. They are also experienced massage therapists and recently opened Haven, a spa in San Anselmo, whose press materials claim that Mey “brings the same dedication to her clients as she does to her art.”

“I have very consciously done things that align with my values, be it creating art or setting up a wellness center,” says Mey. “I have the privilege of being able to create art that has a narrative that ultimately creates catharsis or makes people feel seen.”

Originally published: November 25, 2024 at 7:48am PST

Twenty years ago the tv show “The OC” began invented the word “Chrismukkah”..” The primary character, Seth Cohen, played by Adam Brody, described his interfaith family’s December tradition: “eight days of presents, followed by a day of presents.”

Today Brody is back and starring in a brand new Netflix show. But this time, as a substitute of playing the kid of an interfaith marriage, he’s a rabbi dating a girl “without a Jewish bone in her body” – a girl who at times seems unfamiliar with the fundamentals of American Jewish culture.

“Nobody wants that“is the story of a romance between Rabbi Noah and Joanne, played by Kristen Bell: a blonde, non-Jewish woman who hosts a podcast about her dating disasters. The show used the word “shiksa”“to explain what a non-Jewish woman means to Joanne. However, many consider it so rude that I'm sure my mother will show up at my apartment to scrub my mouth out with soap for even typing it.

Joanne and Noah meet at a celebration where he flirts together with her. They quickly agree that the religious divide between them means they’ll't go on a date.

But after all they do.

In 2024, the most important Jewish movement within the United States, Reform Judaism, decided to permit students with non-Jewish partners to attend rabbinical school – as did several smaller liberal Jewish movements. including renewal, secular humanists and reconstructionists. Conservative and Orthodox rabbis will not be permitted to marry a non-Jewish spouse, and it was not until 2023 that the Conservative movement affirmed that its rabbis would accomplish that cannot have an interfaith marriage.

While some rabbis have only recently turn into capable of have a non-Jewish partner, the essential act of Jewish men dating and marrying non-Jewish women has been a theme of stage and screen for 100 years. As a scholar of American JudaismI write about these depictions of interfaith couples in my book “Beyond Chrismukkah: The Christian-Jewish Interfaith Family in the United States.”

Becoming “Real” Americans

“Abie’s Irish Rose” was published in 1922. premiered on Broadwaywhere it was a industrial hit for five years. The comedy follows a romance between Abie, an American-Jewish soldier, and Rose, his Irish-American nurse during World War I.

The courtship between Rose and Abie is met with disapproval from their fathers, who also do it represented as symbols of the old worlddangerously concerned about preserving their outdated worldviews. Meanwhile, the young couple's love underscores their willingness to go away behind their identities as Catholic and Jewish – each of which were considered “outsider” religions within the Twenties – and turn into “real” Americans.

The rabbi and priest who attend her wedding are also veterans, reinforcing the play's message that patriotism comes first. Abie and Rose's marriage is portrayed as an idealized, romanticized version of the American melting pot.

The piece was just as successful on tour prefer it was on Broadway, although many critics loathed it. It was revived twice on Broadway and made into two movies. Several imitations have been made, including a movie called “The Cohens and the Kellys.”

In the Nineteen Forties, “Abie's Irish Rose” became a radio spinoff, but times had modified. The exaggerated ethnic caricatures were now not considered acceptable and the show was canceled after just a few seasons.

“Bridget loves Bernie”

In the early Nineteen Seventies, CBS created a sitcom based on the premise of a Jewish man – on this case, a taxi driver whose parents own a New York deli – who falls in love with a Catholic teacher who comes from a wealthy family. As in “Abie's Irish Rose,” in “Bridget Loves Bernie,” the younger generation supports the wedding, including the bride's brother, who’s a priest.

The objections all come from members of the older generation, who’re portrayed as tropes – irrational and stuck of their ways. The television show suggests that opposing interfaith marriage is old-fashioned and not likely acceptable.

“Bridget Loves Bernie” received loud protests and was canceled at the tip of the primary season. Many Jewish spectators protested to imagine that interfaith marriage is suitable and even hip.

The show was probably particularly disturbing to the Jewish community because The rate of interfaith marriages increased The Nineteen Seventies saw unprecedented levels of violence, raising fears locally that Jewish assimilation into the broader American culture would prove too successful. The concern was that interfaith couples wouldn’t raise their children Jewish, which might shrink the Jewish community into non-existence. Additionally, Judaism traditionally considers a toddler to be Jewish provided that the mother can also be Jewish That has modified in liberal movements.

While I'm writing in my bookOne critic wrote within the New York Times that a situation comedy about interfaith marriage was as tasteless as one about “the funny adventures of a Jewish family on the way to the gas chambers.”

While CBS denied the show was canceled attributable to the protests, it stays standing The highest rated show was canceled through network television.

The theme of Jewish interfaith marriage as Americans and the resistance to interfaith marriage being outdated also resonates in movies – especially the unique “Broken hearted child” And “Annie Hall.”

Although nobody ever mentions religion within the decades-long series Mad About You, each are a couple of Jewish man married to a non-Jewish woman – and far of the humor comes from the cultural differences between them.

New series, same cliche

Both ideas are also present to some extent in “Nobody Want This” – which also incorporates one other, uglier theme from the archives of interfaith marriages.

In his opening scene, Noah breaks up along with his Jewish girlfriend Rebecca – a girl so eager to propose that she searches his locked desk, finds an engagement ring, puts it on him without his knowledge, after which tries to persuade him to accomplish that despite his doubts. they need to get married. This ex-girlfriend and her best friend, Noah's sister-in-law, appear repeatedly throughout the series, displaying plenty of negative stereotypes about Jewish women as wives and lovers. Noah's mother, who speaks with an old-fashioned accent, claims to know all of his friends and reminds her son: “No one can take a rabbi seriously who dates a shiksa, especially if he marries one.” I don’t mind looking like an overprotective mother.”

These characters reflect negative stereotypes that American Jewish men and girls have long been at odds with one another Historian Riv-Ellen Prell wrote: “the ghetto girl” – a Jewish woman who is simply too greedy, pushy and gluttonous; and men who’re essentially mama's boys. Joyce Antleralso a historian of American Jewry, has written specifically about it Stereotypes from Jewish moms perceived as intrusive, disruptive, presumptuous and over-involved.

Like generations of non-Jewish leading ladies before her, Joanne is what considered one of my interviewees called a “shiksa goddess.” She's blonde, she's easy-going, she's the whole lot that Jewish women are supposedly not. It impresses with its contrast.

In a way, “Nobody Wants This” shows something latest: not only are you able to make a show about interfaith dating, however the Jewish partner can be a rabbi! But otherwise it's old because the hills, or at the very least as old because the silver screen – presenting stories, tropes and misogynistic stereotypes in a shiny latest package.

A brand new Tangled-themed attraction in Japan, dubbed Disney's “most romantic” attraction ever and touted as a possible alternative to Disneyland, is quickly becoming a preferred spot for marriage proposals.

The recent Rapunzel's Lantern Festival The attraction, which opened in June at Tokyo DisneySea, was mentioned as a possible project for the recently approved DisneylandForward Plan to expand the theme park.

Emily “Emo” O'Brien, Executive Creative Producer of the Walt Disney Imagineering Portfolio, described an iconic moment in Rapunzel's Lantern Festival as “one of the most romantic scenes we've ever created in an attraction” through the panel discussion “Bringing the Worlds of Disney Animation to Life in Disney Parks” at D23 Fan Event on the Anaheim Convention Center.

“The overwhelming feeling of romance is actually palpable,” O'Brien said through the D23 fan event. “So much so that we know of two, not one, but two marriage proposals that have actually taken place in the attraction. And both were successful. They both said 'yes.' It has to work.”

The recent attraction “Rapunzel’s Lantern Festival” takes visitors on a romantic gondola ride as Rapunzel escapes from her prison tower, falls in love with the thief Flynn Rider and explores the Kingdom of Corona.

The ride begins outdoors, with Rapunzel singing “When Will My Life Begin” from her tower window while Flynn and Maximus watch nearby. Rapunzel and Flynn visit locations from the film before singing the duet “I See the Light” beneath the film's iconic scene of countless floating lanterns.

Rapunzel’s Forest plays a key role in Fantasy Springs, the latest port of Tokyo DisneySea, which also The Frozen Kingdom And Peter Pan's Neverland.

Disneyland unveils plans for brand new Avatar land based on 'Way of Water'

The backstory of Rapunzel's Forest brings to life the fairytale story of the kidnapped princess with magical long, golden curls, her kingdom of Corona, and the annual Lantern Festival from Disney's 2010 computer-animated film.

A Tangled-themed land was one in all the possible projects within the DisneylandForward expansion plan approved by the Anaheim City Council in early May. The plan updates a city plan from the Nineteen Nineties and calls for a combination of theme park, hotel, retail, dining and entertainment on the eastern and western edges of the Disneyland resort.

DisneylandForward announced 10 themed lands based on Tangled, Avatar, Frozen, Peter Pan, Zootopia, Toy Story, Black Panther, Coco, Tron and Encanto as possible expansion projects in Anaheim.

Disney announced through the D23 fan event that a brand new Coconut-themed attraction is coming to Disney California Adventure within the near future, and an Encanto-themed attraction is planned for 2027 at Disney's Animal Kingdom in Florida.

Originally published: August 13, 2024 at 4:35 am