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		<title>For enslaved people, the vacations were a time of celebration—and a transient time to fight back</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[During slavery in America, enslaved men, women and youngsters also enjoyed the vacations. Slave owners normally gave them larger portions of food, gave them alcohol and provided them with additional days of rest. However, these gestures weren&#8217;t made out of generosity. As an abolitionist, orator and diplomat Frederick Douglass explained that slave owners attempted to [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>During slavery in America, enslaved men, women and youngsters also enjoyed the vacations. Slave owners normally gave them larger portions of food, gave them alcohol and provided them with additional days of rest. </p>
<p>However, these gestures weren&#8217;t made out of generosity. </p>
<p>As an abolitionist, orator and diplomat <a href="https://docsouth.unc.edu/neh/douglass/douglass.html">Frederick Douglass</a> explained that slave owners attempted to maintain enslaved people under control by imposing higher meals and more downtime in hopes of stopping escapes and rebellions.</p>
<p>Most of the time it worked.</p>
<p>But as I describe in my most up-to-date book: “<a href="https://press.uchicago.edu/ucp/books/book/chicago/H/bo229867701.html">People in Bondage: An Atlantic History of Slavery</a>“Many enslaved people were on the heels of their owners and used this transient respite to plan escapes and spark rebellions.</p>
<h2>Feasting, romping and tinkering</h2>
<p>Most enslaved people in America followed the Christian calendar—and celebrated Christmas—as either Catholicism or Protestantism predominated, from Birmingham, Alabama to Brazil.</p>
<p>Consider the instance of Solomon Northup, whose tragic story is depicted within the film “<a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2024544/">12 years a slave</a>.” Northup was born free in upstate New York but was kidnapped and <a href="https://www.archives.gov/fort-worth/highlights/solomon-northup">Sold into slavery in Louisiana in 1841</a>. </p>
<p>In his narrative, Northup explained that his owner and his neighbors gave their slaves between three and 6 days off through the holidays. <a href="https://docsouth.unc.edu/fpn/northup/northup.html">He described this time</a> as a “carnival time with the children of bondage”, a time of “celebration, romp and play”.</p>
<p>According to Northup, yearly a slave owner in Bayou Boeuf in central Louisiana hosted a Christmas dinner attended by as much as 500 enslaved people from neighboring plantations. After eating meager meals all yr, this was a rare opportunity to bask in various kinds of meat, vegetables, fruits, cakes and pies. </p>
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<p>There is evidence of holiday celebrations for the reason that early days of slavery in America. In the British colony of Jamaica <a href="https://doi.org/10.1080/0144039X.2011.601620">a Christmas masquerade called Jonkonnu</a> has been happening for the reason that seventeenth century. A nineteenth century artist <a href="https://si.regeneratedidentities.org/project/DataFiles/SI-OB-921/921-4.jpg">described the celebration</a>It paints 4 enslaved men playing musical instruments, including a container covered in animal skin in addition to an instrument made out of an animal&#39;s jawbone.</p>
<p>In 1861 <a href="https://docsouth.unc.edu/fpn/jacobs/jacobs.html">Narrative of her life in slavery</a>Abolitionist Harriet Jacobs described the same masquerade in North Carolina.  </p>
<p>“Every child gets up early on Christmas morning to see the Johnkannaus,” she wrote. “Without them, Christmas would lose its greatest charm.”</p>
<p>On Christmas Day, she continued, nearly 100 enslaved men marched through the plantation in colourful costumes with cow tails strapped to their backs and horns on their heads. They went door to door asking for donations of food, drinks and gifts. They sang, danced and played musical instruments they made themselves &#8211; sheepskin drums, metal triangles and an instrument made out of the jawbone of a horse, mule or donkey.</p>
<h2>It&#39;s the most effective time to flee from on a regular basis life</h2>
<p>But behind the celebration lay an underlying fear through the holiday for enslaved men, women and youngsters. </p>
<p>In the American South, slave owners often sold or rented their slaves <a href="https://www.hup.harvard.edu/books/9780674011496">in the primary days of the yr to repay their debts</a>. During the week between Christmas and New Year&#39;s, many enslaved men, women, and youngsters anxious about the potential of being separated from their family members. </p>
<p>At the identical time, slave owners and their overseers were often distracted—if not drunk—through the holidays. It was a chief opportunity to plan an escape.</p>
<p><a href="https://lithub.com/art-imitates-testimony-on-the-real-life-inspiration-for-uncle-toms-cabin/">John Andrew Jackson</a> was owned by a Quaker planter family in South Carolina. After being separated from his wife and child, he planned to flee through the Christmas holidays of 1846. He managed to flee to Charleston. From there he went north and eventually reached New Brunswick in Canada. Unfortunately, he was never in a position to reunite along with his enslaved relatives.</p>
<p>Even Harriet Tubman took advantage of the holiday break. Five years after her successful escape from the Maryland plantation where she was enslaved, <a href="https://docsouth.unc.edu/highlights/holidays.html">She returned on Christmas Day 1854</a> to avoid wasting her three brothers from a lifetime of bondage.</p>
<h2>It is the time of riot</h2>
<p>Across America, the vacations also provided  opportunity to plan riots.</p>
<p>In 1811, enslaved and free people of color planned a series of uprisings in Cuba that became referred to as <a href="https://uncpress.org/book/9780807857724/the-1812-aponte-rebellion-in-cuba-and-the-struggle-against-atlantic-slavery/">Point Rebellion</a>. The plans and preparations took place between Christmas and <a href="https://sacredheartfla.org/sunday-mornings/seasonal/feast-days-solemnities/the-solemnity-of-the-epiphany-three-kings-day/">the day of the kings</a>a Catholic holiday on January sixth commemorating the Three Wise Men who visited the child Jesus. Inspired by the Haitian Revolution, free people of color and enslaved people joined together to finish slavery on the island.</p>
<p>The Cuban government finally crushed the rebellion in April.</p>
<p>In Jamaica, enslaved people followed suit. Samuel Sharpe, a <a href="https://doi.org/10.1080/0005576X.2024.2344927">enslaved Baptist lay deacon</a>called a general strike on Christmas Day 1831 to demand wages and higher working conditions for the enslaved population.</p>
<p>Two nights later, a bunch of enslaved people set fire to a garbage house on a property in Montego Bay. The fire spread and what was presupposed to be a strike changed into a violent riot. The Christmas Riot &#8211; or Baptist War because it was called &#8211; <a href="https://www.hup.harvard.edu/books/9780674271159">was the biggest slave revolt in Jamaica&#39;s history</a>. For almost two months, hundreds of slaves fought against British forces until they were finally subdued. <a href="https://www.thegazette.co.uk/all-notices/content/103864">Sharpe was hanged in Montego Bay on May 23, 1832</a>. </p>
<p>After news of the Christmas Rising and its violent suppression reached Britain, anti-slavery activists increased their calls for slavery to be banned. The following yr, Parliament passed it <a href="https://beta.nationalarchives.gov.uk/explore-the-collection/explore-by-time-period/georgians/1833-abolition-of-slavery-act-and-compensation-claims/">Slavery Abolition Act</a>which banned slavery within the British Empire.</p>
<p>Yes, the week between Christmas and New Year offered the chance to have a good time festivals or plan uprisings. </p>
<p>But more importantly, it was a rare opportunity for enslaved men, women and youngsters to reclaim their humanity.</p>
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		<title>The Best Bottle Shops within the Bay Area to Get Your Cocktail Gifts for the 2024 Holidays</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[Want to purchase the right bottle to have fun the vacations? We asked the experts at three Bay Area bottle shops for his or her recommendations. Barrel Shoppe, Lafayette Barrel Shoppe worker Carter Krznaric restocks a shelf with whiskey on Thursday, Dec. 12, 2024, in Lafayette, Calif. (Aric Crabb/Bay Area News Group) You might find [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>Want to purchase the right bottle to have fun the vacations? We asked the experts at three Bay Area bottle shops for his or her recommendations.</p>
<h4>Barrel Shoppe, Lafayette</h4>
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<p>You might find just a few spirit blends here, but most of Barrel Shoppe&#39;s bourbons, ryes, whiskeys, and tequilas are single-barrel, single-source—and almost every bottle is exclusive.</p>
<p>“We wanted a store where we handpicked everything,” says founder Matthew Hagel, who opened the shop in March after 30 years as a distributor. “There is a story behind everything. When someone buys a bottle, we want someone to be able to take it to their poker game or as a gift and say why they bought it, something personal about the bottle, rather than just saying, &#8220;It was on sale.&#8221;</p>
<p>The exact same ingredients put into a bourbon&#39;s mash have dramatically different flavors depending on the specific barrel in which it was aged. The new Riff Bourbon barrel #24496, for example, has lots of sweetness, while #23463 is more traditional oak.</p>
<p>“The exact mash bill, distilled the same way, barreled at the same ABV, everything is the same except one might be higher and one might be lower in the rickhouse,” says Barrel Shoppe expert Carter Krznaric. “This gives each barrel its unique quality.”</p>
<p><strong>Recommendations: </strong>For beginners who wish to delve into the bourbon world, Krznaric recommends <a href="https://barrelshoppe.com/products/new-riff-single-barrel-bourbon-barrel-no-24496">New reef #24496</a> ($60) for a sweeter taste at a less expensive price than others. One of the most well-liked sellers is the <a href="https://barrelshoppe.com/products/smokeye-hill-barrel-proof-straight-bourbon-whiskey">Smokey Hill Barrel Proof Straight Bourbon Whiskey ($80)</a>which was named Best Small Batch Bourbon on the 2024 ASCOT Awards. At the highest he suggests <a href="https://barrelshoppe.com/products/hillrock-bourbon-solera-aged-cask-1-barrel-shoppe-pick?_pos=3&#038;_sid=f8e1714ee&#038;_ss=r">Hillrock Bourbon Solera Aged Cask 1 ($170), available exclusively in store</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Details:</strong> Barrel Shoppe is open Monday through Saturday from 11 a.m. to six p.m. at 3430 Mt. Diablo Blvd. in Lafayette; <a href="https://barrelshoppe.com">Barrelshoppe.com</a>.</p>
<figure id="attachment_11309797" class="wp-caption alignnone size-article_inline"><img decoding="async" class=" lazyautosizes lazyload" alt="Bottles of Hillrock, New Riff and Smokeye whiskeys for sale at the Barrel Shoppe on Thursday, Dec. 12, 2024, in Lafayette, Calif. (Aric Crabb/Bay Area News Group)" width="5000" data-sizes="auto" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1222-5.jpg?fit=620%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1" data-attachment-id="11309797" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1222-5.jpg?fit=620%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 620w,https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1222-5.jpg?fit=780%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 780w,https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1222-5.jpg?fit=810%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 810w,https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1222-5.jpg?fit=1280%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 1280w,https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1222-5.jpg?fit=1860%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 1860w"><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Bottles of Hillrock, New Riff and Smokeye whiskeys on the market on the Barrel Shoppe on Thursday, Dec. 12, 2024, in Lafayette, Calif. (Aric Crabb/Bay Area News Group) </figcaption></figure>
<h4>Barrel Shop, Berkeley</h4>
<figure id="attachment_11306035" class="wp-caption alignnone size-article_inline"><img decoding="async" class=" lazyautosizes lazyload" alt="Manager Chris Banks (center) and employees Fergus Glen-Lee (left) and Scott Siler stand on one of the islands at the Cask Store in Berkeley, California, on Tuesday, December 3, 2024. (Ray Chavez/Bay Area News Group)" width="5808" data-sizes="auto" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-1_6f60ff.jpg?fit=620%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1" data-attachment-id="11306035" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-1_6f60ff.jpg?fit=620%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 620w,https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-1_6f60ff.jpg?fit=780%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 780w,https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-1_6f60ff.jpg?fit=810%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 810w,https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-1_6f60ff.jpg?fit=1280%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 1280w,https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-1_6f60ff.jpg?fit=1860%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 1860w"><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Manager Chris Banks (center) and employees Fergus Glen-Lee (left) and Scott Siler pose within the aisle of the Cask Store on Tuesday, December 3, 2024 in Berkeley, California. (Ray Chavez/Bay Area News Group) </figcaption></figure>
<p>Cask Store was born from a straightforward idea: If you&#39;re in a cocktail bar and discover something delicious and latest constructed from liquors and ingredients you&#39;ve never heard of, then that is the place to seek out those items for yourself.</p>
<p>“If you make an Old Fashioned but also want something on the rocks to sample the nuances, we have a bottle that fills that gap. Or if you want that rare, esoteric thing, we can get our hands on it,” says manager Chris Banks.</p>
<p>The flagship Cask debuted in San Francisco in 2008 under the ownership of <a href="https://www.futurebars.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Future bars</a>a nightlife concept group behind upscale spots like town&#39;s Bourbon &#038; Branch and Berkeley&#39;s Tupper &#038; Reed. The company has since opened a second store in Berkeley&#39;s Elmwood neighborhood, with a taproom serving limited-edition beers and wines and shelves filled with bottles in every shade of the alcohol rainbow.</p>
<p>The Elmwood location has a large choice across all spirit categories, from international and domestic whiskeys to gins and absinthes, rums, brandies, vermouths and amaros. There are treasures from far-flung places, including “Clairin rums from Haiti, which are all about terroir and made by individual farmers who grow their own sugar cane,” says Banks.</p>
<figure id="attachment_11306040" class="wp-caption alignnone size-article_inline"><img decoding="async" class=" lazyautosizes lazyload" alt="Joseph Foronda of Berkeley returns to the table with a few drinks for his wife Liz Santos and himself at the Cask Store bar in Berkeley, California on Tuesday, December 3, 2024. (Ray Chavez/Bay Area Newsgroup)" width="5808" data-sizes="auto" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-5.jpg?fit=620%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1" data-attachment-id="11306040" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-5.jpg?fit=620%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 620w,https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-5.jpg?fit=780%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 780w,https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-5.jpg?fit=810%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 810w,https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-5.jpg?fit=1280%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 1280w,https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-5.jpg?fit=1860%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 1860w"><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Joseph Foronda of Berkeley returns to the table with just a few drinks for his wife Liz Santos and himself on the Cask Store bar in Berkeley, California on Tuesday, December 3, 2024. (Ray Chavez/Bay Area News Group) </figcaption></figure>
<p>A heavy reliance on local producers is obvious in selections like Home Base Bourbon, made by two sisters within the East Bay, and apple brandy from Petaluma&#39;s Barber Lee Spirits. Western gins particularly seem to return from a magical realm, with a Freeland Spirits Forest Gin constructed from Oregon chanterelles and Douglas fir suggestions, and a botanical gin from Suncliffe with juniper berries that (based on the maker) are &#8220;shaken from the twisted trees&#8221; . Sedona – a slice of high desert beloved by mystics and adventurers – then dried right into a landscape characterised by swirls of energy, towering cliffs and infinite Arizona skies.”</p>
<p>The small taproom has the texture of a speakeasy and is all the time filled with locals having fun with rare pours and the shuffleboard table. Free weekly tastings are drawing much more people, with recent events featuring Japanese Nikka whiskeys, Italian Sirene spirits and canned cocktails from New York&#39;s famed cocktail bar Death &#038; Co.</p>
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<p><strong>Recommendations:</strong> Connoisseurs of brown spirits will enjoy this <a href="https://caskstore.com/products/johnny-drum-private-stock-101-750-ml?_pos=1&#038;_sid=1c00a5f5c&#038;_ss=r" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Johnny Drum Private Stock from the Willett Distillery in Kentucky</a> ($55 for 750 ml), whose caramel-marzipan flavor stands as much as bourbons twice its price.</p>
<p>For something more esoteric, Banks recommends this <a href="https://caskstore.com/products/siembra-azul-blanco-750-ml?_pos=1&#038;_psq=Siembra+Azul&#038;_ss=e&#038;_v=1.0" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Siembra Azul Tequila from the highlands of Jalisco, Mexico</a> ($77 for 750ml). Interesting fact from Cask&#39;s employees: “During the fermentation of the agave, they play Vivaldi and Mozart to the yeast. I’m not sure what the effect is, but this is a delicious product so we won’t argue!”</p>
<p><strong>Details:</strong> The Berkeley Bottle Shop is at 3185 College Ave. Monday through Saturday from 11 a.m. to eight p.m. and Sunday until 7 p.m. open. The taproom is open Tuesday through Thursday from 3 p.m. to eight p.m. and Friday through Saturday until 10 p.m. <a href="https://caskstore.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">caskstore.com</a>.</p>
<h4 class="">Vineyard Gate, Millbrae</h4>
<figure id="attachment_11292395" class="wp-caption aligncenter size-article_inline"><img decoding="async" class=" lazyautosizes lazyload" alt="Alex Bernardo, owner, stands behind wines from La Onda, Domaine Lienhardt and Envinate at Vineyard Gate on Wednesday, November 27, 2024 in Millbrae, California. (Shae Hammond/Bay Area News Group)" width="4800" data-sizes="auto" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-4.jpg?fit=620%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1" data-attachment-id="11292395" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-4.jpg?fit=620%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 620w,https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-4.jpg?fit=780%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 780w,https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-4.jpg?fit=810%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 810w,https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-4.jpg?fit=1280%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 1280w,https://i0.wp.com/www.mercurynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/SJM-L-BOTTLESHOPS-1215-4.jpg?fit=1860%2C9999px&#038;ssl=1 1860w"><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Alex Bernardo, owner, stands behind wines from La Onda, Domaine Lienhardt and Envinate at Vineyard Gate on Wednesday, November 27, 2024 in Millbrae, California. (Shae Hammond/Bay Area News Group) </figcaption></figure>
<p>Operating in downtown Millbrae since 1999, this cozy, artisanal wine and sake shop focuses on small-production wines made with minimal intervention. But you&#8217;ve to be here soon. The bottle shop will close in just a few months, giving Bernardo time for his soon-to-open sake café and audible bar on San Francisco&#39;s Nob Hill &#8211; Japanese tea by day, sake by night.</p>
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<p><strong>Recommendations: </strong>At Vineyard Gate, Bernardo recommends wines ($35-$65) from <a href="https://www.laondawine.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The wave.</a> a small winery in Point Richmond run by Dani Rozman whose vineyard is positioned within the foothills of the Sierra Nevada. The wines from Domaine Antoine Lienhardt in France and Envinate in Spain are also value a glance – and a tasting.</p>
<p><strong>Details:</strong> Open 10 a.m. to six p.m. Wednesdays, until 7 p.m. Thursdays through Saturdays and 1 p.m. to six p.m. Sundays at 238 Broadway in Millbrae; <a href="https://vineyardgate.myshopify.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Vineyardgate.myshopify.com</a>.</p>
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<p>Originally published: <time datetime="2024-12-17 09:00:54">December 17, 2024 at 9:00 am PST</time></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[The holidays, often viewed as a time of joy and togetherness, will also be probably the most difficult times for those grieving a loss. Nearly 95% of people that have experienced loss report that they struggle with it at the very least one symptom of physical or mental stress. About 10% of them develop persistent [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>The holidays, often viewed as a time of joy and togetherness, will also be probably the most difficult times for those grieving a loss.</p>
<p>Nearly 95% of people that have experienced loss report that they struggle with it <a href="https://www.prnewswire.com/il/news-releases/empathy-releases-annual-cost-of-dying-report-for-2024-302036982.html">at the very least one symptom of physical or mental stress</a>. About 10% of them develop <a href="https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/prolonged-grief-disorder">persistent grief disorder</a>a persistent and debilitating type of grief that doesn&#8217;t subside over time.</p>
<p>Often this grief is because of the death of a loved one, but it could possibly even be brought on by the lack of a friendship, a divorce, and even the lack of a job.</p>
<p>Grief doesn&#39;t just affect <a href="https://www.webmd.com/balance/special-reports/grief-stages/20190711/the-grief-experience-survey-shows-its-complicated">mental health</a> but additionally <a href="https://doi.org/10.31887/DCNS.2012.14.2/tbuckley">physical well-being</a>and it could possibly increase risk <a href="https://doi.org/10.1161/CIRCULATIONAHA.111.061770">heart disease</a>Immune deficiency and even death. </p>
<p>Holidays and special occasions, which frequently include family gatherings, traditions, and reminders of what&#8217;s missing, can increase this pain and leave those grieving feeling isolated and overwhelmed.</p>
<p>As a clinical psychologist and <a href="https://scholar.google.com/citations?user=f9DdtPUAAAAJ&#038;hl=en&#038;oi=ao">Professor of Psychiatry and Neurobehavioral Sciences</a> When I work with cancer patients and their families, I realize how deeply grief affects people. I even have also personally experienced grief, each when my mother died suddenly on the age of 66 and when my father passed away after an extended illness on the age of 84.</p>
<p>These experiences, combined with my research, have led me to dedicate much of my profession to understanding grief and its effects and finding effective ways to support those battling it.</p>
<h2>Grief vs. prolonged grief</h2>
<p>Grief is a natural response to loss and includes emotional, cognitive, physical and social reactions. Common signs include sadness, withdrawal, difficulty concentrating, difficulty sleeping and physical symptoms similar to fatigue or pain.</p>
<p>Grief is a deeply personal matter, and although there isn&#8217;t a &#8220;right&#8221; option to grieve, most individuals undergo this process over time and find latest balance of their lives.</p>
<p>However, some people experience <a href="https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/prolonged-grief-disorder">persistent grief disorder</a>a condition newly recognized within the gold standard manual of psychiatry <a href="https://www.psychiatry.org/psychiatrists/practice/dsm">Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, fifth Edition</a>in 2022.</p>
<p>This condition is characterised by intense longing, sadness, or preoccupation with the deceased that lasts 12 months or longer and significantly impairs on a regular basis functions. People affected by this disorder often feel disconnected from life and unable to search out joy or meaning.</p>
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<p><iframe title="How Grief Affects Your Brain And What To Do About It | Better | NBC News" width="1170" height="658" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/eEcaUhxAH2g?feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share" referrerpolicy="strict-origin-when-cross-origin" allowfullscreen></iframe></p><figcaption><span class="caption">Grief can have profound effects on the brain.</span></figcaption></figure>
<p>In contrast to non-pathological grief, persistent grief disorder is related to chronic activation of grief <a href="https://www.apa.org/news/podcasts/speaking-of-psychology/grieving-changes-brain">Brain stress response system</a>especially in areas like that <a href="https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/24894-amygdala">Amygdala</a>. The amygdala is a small, almond-shaped collection of neurons within the brain that plays a key role in processing emotions, particularly fear, stress, and threat-related responses. A persistent grief disorder can also be related to it <a href="https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/complicated-grief/symptoms-causes/syc-20360374">mental illnesses</a> similar to depression, anxiety and post-traumatic stress disorder or PTSD.</p>
<p>When supporting a friend or member of the family through their grief, it can be crucial to be alert for signs of ongoing grief disorder, as this requires targeted interventions. Research, including my ongoing studies into using <a href="https://doi.org/10.1080/09540261.2024.2357668">Psilocybin-assisted therapy</a> for the treatment of grief highlights the importance of <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/interview-with-dr-kim-penberthy-of-dops/id1647611444?i=1000663669728">innovative approaches</a> to assist those stuck within the cycle of prolonged grief.</p>
<p>If you think that somebody you&#8217;re keen on is battling ongoing grief, encouraging them to hunt help and offering support along the best way could be life-changing. Resources can be found, from grief counseling to support groups. Organizations like <a href="http://grief.org">the American Grief Foundation</a> and native mental health services can provide further advice to assist a loved one get the treatment they need.</p>
<h2>Dealing with our own grief on holidays and special occasions</h2>
<p>Research supports several strategies for coping with grief, whether typical or prolonged:</p>
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<p>Expressing emotions: Suppressing grief can worsen mental and physical health problems. Talk to trusted friends, journal, and join support groups <a href="https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/grief/what-does-inhibited-grief-look-like">could be therapeutic</a>.</p>
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<p>Participate in rituals: Personal or cultural rituals, similar to lighting a candle, visiting a gravesite, or making a memory book, help integrate the loss into one&#39;s life.</p>
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<p>Create latest traditions to honor your loss: If you&#39;re grieving a death, consider incorporating the one you love&#39;s memory into the occasion by preparing their favorite dish, playing their favorite music, or hanging a decoration of their honor .</p>
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<p>Seek skilled support: cognitive behavioral therapy or complicated grief therapy <a href="https://www.psychiatrictimes.com/view/treating-prolonged-grief-disorder-innovations-and-future-directions">could be effective treatments</a> with persistent grief disorder. Psychedelic-assisted therapy can also be proving to be a promising option in clinical research.</p>
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              <span class="caption">Simply being present is top-of-the-line ways to support a grieving loved one in the course of the holidays.</span><br />
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<h2>Support someone of their grief</h2>
<p>Holidays and special occasions similar to a birthday or Mother&#39;s Day could be particularly difficult for those grieving. Here are some practical tricks to support someone who&#8217;s grieving during these times:</p>
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<p>Remember that grief just isn&#8217;t an issue to be solved, but a process to be supported.</p>
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<p>Be. A standard fear is saying the incorrect thing to someone who&#8217;s grieving. Often it&#39;s not about saying the &#8220;perfect thing,&#8221; but fairly just showing up and listening without judgment.</p>
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<p>Acknowledge the loss. Saying, &#8220;I&#39;ve been thinking about (your loved one) and how much they meant to you&#8221; or &#8220;I want you to know that I&#39;ve been thinking about you and the meaning of what you&#39;re experiencing right now&#8221; is more comforting than to avoid the subject.</p>
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<p>Offer practical help. Grief could be debilitating and stressful. Assistance with tasks similar to cooking, shopping or childcare can relieve a number of the burden.</p>
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<p>If you don&#39;t know what to say, it&#39;s okay to confess it. An easy “I don’t have the right words, but I’m here for you” can mean so much.</p>
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<p>Avoid saying things like, &#8220;They&#39;re doing better&#8221; or &#8220;Everything happens for a reason.&#8221; Although the intentions behind them are sometimes good, these platitudes can even seem dismissive.</p>
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<p>Focus on empathy and validation. Saying, &#8220;This must be so hard for you&#8221; or &#8220;Tell me more about what you&#39;re feeling&#8221; opens the door to meaningful conversations and helps create space for the complex emotions that grief brings.</p>
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<p>Respect the boundaries of the one you love who&#8217;s grieving. Let them honor their feelings by going at their very own pace.</p>
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<p>Coping with individuals who have suffered loss around holidays and special occasions could be complicated. But your presence and compassion in these moments can support their healing.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Nov 2024 17:51:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[There are loads of conversation pitfalls to avoid on the festive dinner table. Money shows the way in which based on a recent Bankrate survey. We found that only 38% of U.S. adults are comfortable discussing their account balances with relations and shut friends. Less than half (47%) are joyful to speak about their love [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>There are loads of conversation pitfalls to avoid on the festive dinner table. Money shows the way in which <a href="https://www.bankrate.com/credit-cards/news/financial-taboos-survey/?mf_ct_campaign=tribune-synd-feed&#038;utm_content=syndication">based on a recent Bankrate survey</a>. We found that only 38% of U.S. adults are comfortable discussing their account balances with relations and shut friends. Less than half (47%) are joyful to speak about their love life, and only 52% are joyful to speak about their love life <a href="https://www.bankrate.com/credit-cards/best-credit-cards/?mf_ct_campaign=tribune-synd-feed&#038;utm_content=syndication">Credit card</a> Debts.</p>
<p>In comparison, Americans are way more willing to debate potentially sensitive topics akin to their weight (71% comfortable), their political opinions (78%), their religious views (81%) and their health (also 81%) .</p>
<p>I&#39;m surprised at how many individuals view money as a taboo topic of conversation. Only 14% of U.S. adults imagine money is a traditional topic of debate at holiday gatherings with friends and relations. However, it still happens. For example:</p>
<p>—19% provided financial support to a friend or member of the family at a vacation gathering.</p>
<p>– 10% say family and friends often ask them awkward money questions around the vacations.</p>
<p>—9% asked a friend or member of the family for financial support at a vacation gathering.</p>
<p>—8% are concerned in regards to the financial situation of a member of the family or friend and plan to debate it with them over the vacation season.</p>
<p>Ours too <a href="https://www.bankrate.com/credit-cards/news/survey-holiday-travel/?mf_ct_campaign=tribune-synd-feed&#038;utm_content=syndication">Holiday travel survey</a> found that 13% of vacation travelers plan to ask family or friends to pay for his or her trips. And amongst Americans who&#8217;ve maxed out (or come near) their bank card limit for the reason that start of 2022, <a href="https://www.bankrate.com/credit-cards/news/credit-utilization-survey/?mf_ct_campaign=tribune-synd-feed&#038;utm_content=syndication">Almost 1 / 4 (22%) needed to borrow money from family or friends</a>.</p>
<h4>Proceed with caution</h4>
<p>Remember how airplane safety demonstrations ask you to placed on your oxygen mask before helping others? The same goes for supporting relations and friends with financial problems. In other words, don&#39;t lend extra money than you may afford to lose.</p>
<p>Of Americans who&#8217;ve loaned money to family or friends (including those that paid for a gaggle expense and expected to be paid back), 42% lost money, 24% experienced a damaged relationship and 9% suffered <a href="https://www.bankrate.com/credit-cards/bad-credit/the-high-cost-of-a-low-credit-score/?mf_ct_campaign=tribune-synd-feed&#038;utm_content=syndication">damage your creditworthiness</a>.</p>
<p>Also consider viewing the cash as a present fairly than a loan. If you really need the a refund, it&#8217;s advisable to conclude a casual contract. You could make it clear that you simply actually desire a refund. You may even create an amortization schedule and/or add an rate of interest. Although you almost certainly won&#39;t take a friend or member of the family to court over the matter, this exercise serves to make clear expectations. Sometimes it&#39;s unclear whether someone wants a refund or not.</p>
<h4>There are ways to assist apart from donating money</h4>
<p>For example, perhaps you may offer profession advice or recommendations to people in your network who may also help your friend or member of the family discover a latest job. And as a substitute of paying rent, possibly you may let an adult child live with you for some time while they find their way. In this case, it could be helpful to maintain an end date in mind. I also prefer it when the adult child participates in something and maybe pays a small rent or contributes to household expenses akin to groceries and utilities. You could even set this money aside and provides it back at a later date to make use of as a deposit on an apartment or to assist with moving costs.</p>
<p>Sometimes the most effective approach is to softly say no, and that&#39;s okay. One could say you value the connection an excessive amount of to combine family and funds in case things get out of hand and the connection suffers. You could also explain that providing financial assistance simply doesn&#39;t fit into your budget. I&#39;ve even heard of individuals turning their request around and saying, &#8220;Wow, I was just about to ask you for a loan!&#8221; I assume we&#39;re each out of luck.&#8221; <a href="https://www.bankrate.com/banking/savings/emergency-savings-survey/?mf_ct_campaign=tribune-synd-feed&#038;utm_content=syndication">Nearly two-thirds of Americans feel like they&#8217;re behind on their emergency savings</a>You have a number of company.</p>
<h4>The final result</h4>
<p>Don&#39;t be surprised if a member of the family presents you with just a little speak about money together with the stuffing and mashed potatoes this holiday season. Before agreeing to borrow money, rigorously examine your financial situation. If you say yes, you may have to agree that you&#8217;ll never see the cash again. And keep in mind that there are gentle ways to say “no” now or not, and maybe offer assist in other ways.</p>
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		<title>Brightening up the vacations within the West Valley – The Mercury News</title>
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<p>Looking for something to do over the vacations? The West Valley is here for you.</p>
<p>From tree lightings to parades to carriage rides, look no further than Los Gatos and Saratoga for holiday fun.</p>
<h4>Los Gatos in the sunshine</h4>
<p>The annual – and free – Los Gatos Winter Celebration will happen on Friday, December 6, from 5 to 7 p.m. at Town Plaza Park. The event features a visit from Santa, a tree lighting at 6 p.m., snow flurries, a lightweight show and more. Visit <a href="http://losgatosca.gov/lginlights">losgatosca.gov/lginlights</a> to seek out out more.</p>
<h4>Fantasy of lights</h4>
<p>The popular Fantasy of Lights returns to Vasona Lake County Park for the vacations.</p>
<p>The exhibition will likely be open for viewing from December seventh to eighth from 4pm to 9pm. Admission requires prepaid tickets starting at $17.</p>
<p>The transit takes place from December tenth to January. 5, except December twenty fifth and thirty first and January 1st. Prepaid tickets start at $32.34 per vehicle <a href="http://parks.santaclaracounty.gov/FantasyofLights">parks.santaclaracounty.gov/FantasyofLights</a>.</p>
<h4>Christmas tree lighting</h4>
<p>The Los Gatos History Club will host the annual lighting of the Grand Christmas Tree in Town Plaza Park on Friday, December 2nd. The history club has been a part of this tradition because it first donated and planted the tree in 1923. Visit him <a href="http://historyclublosgatos.org/event-details/holiday-tree-lighting">Historyclublosgatos.org/event-details/holiday-tree-lighting</a> for more information.</p>
<h4>Carriage rides</h4>
<p>After debuting at “Los Gatos in Lights” on December 6, a cable car-style trolley will likely be available for rides, photo opportunities and giveaways throughout the vacation season.</p>
<p>From December thirteenth to fifteenth, participants can take a hop-on, hop-off trolley tour of the town, with a special appearance by Santa Claus. Visit <a href="http://losgatoschamber.com/events">losgatoschamber.com/events</a> to seek out out more.</p>
<h4>Santa Claus visits the old town</h4>
<p>From December twelfth to fifteenth, Santa Claus will likely be available to greet children in his workshop in Old Town Los Gatos. In addition to giveaways and entertainment, volunteers can be found to take photos of youngsters with Santa. Visit <a href="http://losgatoschamber.com/events">losgatoschamber.com/events </a>to seek out out more.</p>
<h4>Holiday market</h4>
<p>Visit the Civic Center lawn on Main Street in Los Gatos from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. each days on December 14th and fifteenth to benefit from the Kiwanis Club Christmas Market. Entertainment, refreshments and works by local artists will likely be provided. The proceeds profit local youth. Visit <a href="http://losgatoschamber.com/events">losgatoschamber.com/events</a> to seek out out more.</p>
<h4>Children&#39;s parade</h4>
<p>On Saturday, December 7, the town&#39;s annual Children&#39;s Holiday Parade will happen along North Santa Cruz Avenue and Main Street in Los Gatos.</p>
<p>In its 68th yr, the parade will draw crowds from across the Bay Area, including local officials like Los Gatos and Monte Sereno council members and characters like Butters the pet therapy duck. Visit <a href="https://www.lgsrecreation.org/parade">https://www.lgsrecreation.org/parade</a> More information in regards to the parade lineup might be found here.</p>
<h4>Saratoga Tree Lighting</h4>
<p>The Saratoga Village Christmas Tree Lighting is scheduled for Friday, November twenty ninth at 5:30 p.m. Restaurants and shops within the Village could have prolonged hours, horse-drawn carriages will likely be available for rides and native choirs will perform. For more information, see <a href="http://saratoga.ca.us/Calendar.aspx?EID=2264">saratoga.ca.us/Calendar.aspx?EID=2264</a>.</p>
<h4>Candy Cane Village</h4>
<p>Photos with Santa, live music, arts and crafts tables and more can be found at 14460 Big Basin Way. LED balloons and hot cocoa will likely be available for purchase. For more information, see <a href="http://saratoga.ca.us/CivicAlerts.aspx?AID=141">saratoga.ca.us/CivicAlerts.aspx?AID=141</a></p>
<h4>Christmas wine walk</h4>
<p>Saratoga&#39;s Christmas Wine Stroll takes place immediately after the town&#39;s Christmas Tree Lighting on Friday, November twenty ninth. Starting at 6 p.m., the walk features tastings from wineries like Left Bend and Savannah Chanelle Vineyards.</p>
<p>Tickets start at $60<a href="http://eventbrite.com"> eventbrite.com</a>.</p>
<h4>Celebration of Light</h4>
<p>This yr&#39;s Celebration of Light is hosted by the City of Saratoga and the Saratoga Ministerial Association and can happen at Blaney Plaza on Saturday, December seventh at 6 p.m. The city and the ministerial association will have fun the town&#39;s diversity with light, &#8220;a symbol of hope, joy and faith across all cultures.&#8221; For more information, see <a href="http://saratoga.ca.us/Calendar.aspx?EID=2265">saratoga.ca.us/Calendar.aspx?EID=2265.</a></p>
<p>Originally published: <time datetime="2024-11-24 06:54:49">November 24, 2024 at 6:54 am PST</time></p>
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		<title>Many years after Billie Holiday’s death, “Strange Fruit” continues to be a burning testimony of injustice – and constant solidarity with those who are suffering</title>
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<p>65 years ago, on July 17, 1959, Billie Holiday died at New York&#39;s Metropolitan Hospital. The 44-year-old singer arrived after being turned away from a close-by charity hospital for drug abuse after which lay on a stretcher within the hallway for hours. <a href="https://archive.org/details/sim_down-beat_1959-07-09_26_14/page/10/mode/2up">undetected and unsupervised</a>Her assets amounted to <a href="https://books.google.no/books/about/Ebony.html?id=atcDAAAAMBAJ&#038;redir_esc=y">70 cents within the bank and a roll of banknotes</a> hidden with them, their share of the payment for <a href="https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/558484/billie-holiday-the-last-interview-by-billie-holiday/">a tabloid interview</a> she gave <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/pin/535154368217367176/">on her deathbed</a>. </p>
<p>Today, Holiday is revered as one of the crucial influential musicians of all time. Time Magazine called <a href="https://time.com/archive/6737430/the-best-of-the-century/">their 1939 recording of “Strange Fruit”</a> the song of the twentieth century. &#8220;In this sad, somber song about lynching in the South,&#8221; wrote Time in 1999, &#8220;the greatest jazz singer in history grapples with history itself.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="https://www.npr.org/2012/09/05/158933012/the-strange-story-of-the-man-behind-strange-fruit">Abel Meeropol</a>a New York teacher and songwriter who used the pseudonym Lewis Allan, wrote “Strange Fruit” after seeing a photograph of a lynching that <a href="https://go.gale.com/ps/i.do?id=GALE%7CA391856050&#038;sid=googleScholar&#038;v=2.1&#038;it=r&#038;linkaccess=abs&#038;issn=07344392&#038;p=AONE&#038;sw=w&#038;userGroupName=anon%7Efa92718e&#038;aty=open-web-entry">shocked and persecuted him</a>: “Black body sways in the southern breeze / Strange fruits hang from the poplars.” </p>
<p>Holiday&#39;s interpretation of Meeropol&#39;s song is as stunning &#8211; and haunting &#8211; today because it was when it was first recorded. &#8220;It hits hard,&#8221; wrote columnist Samuel Grafton shortly after the record&#39;s release in 1939. &#8220;<a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/889909123">It&#39;s like a game of &#8220;Let&#39;s pretend&#8221; has come to an end</a>.” </p>
<p>I&#8217;m <a href="https://search.asu.edu/profile/104776">a scholar of American religion</a>, <a href="https://press.princeton.edu/books/hardcover/9780691049632/culture-and-redemption">literature</a>And <a href="https://www.psupress.org/books/titles/978-0-271-08095-6.html">The arts</a>and I&#39;m involved in the way in which that even powerful secular works draw their energy from religious narratives of justice, injustice, truth-telling, and redemption. Strange Fruit is  example for me.</p>
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<p><iframe title="Billie Holiday - &quot;Strange Fruit&quot; Live 1959 [Reelin&#039; In The Years Archives]" width="1170" height="878" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/-DGY9HvChXk?feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share" referrerpolicy="strict-origin-when-cross-origin" allowfullscreen></iframe></p><figcaption><span class="caption">Billie Holiday sings “Strange Fruit” in 1959.</span></figcaption></figure>
<h2>Unflinching Translation of texts</h2>
<p>Like so many composers whose songs Holiday has recorded – <a href="https://thesongbook.org/hall-of-fame/songbook-hall-of-fame-honorees/george-ira-gershwin/">George and Ira Gershwin</a>, <a href="https://thesongbook.org/about/news-media/the-songbook-blog-items/irving-berlins-america/">Irving-Berlin</a>, <a href="https://thesongbook.org/about/news-media/the-songbook-blog-items/everybodys-favorite-composer-jerome-kern/">Jerome Kern</a> – Meeropol got here from a family of Jewish immigrants in America who fled anti-Semitic violence in Europe. </p>
<p>Two major migrations shaped America within the early twentieth century: <a href="https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/190696/the-warmth-of-other-suns-by-isabel-wilkerson/">from the agricultural south to the economic north</a>And <a href="https://www.loc.gov/classroom-materials/united-states-history-primary-source-timeline/progressive-era-to-new-era-1900-1929/immigrants-in-progressive-era/">From the Old World to the New</a>. Both <a href="https://guides.osu.edu/greatmigration/strangefruit">were driven</a>partly by the will <a href="https://www.loc.gov/classroom-materials/immigration/polish-russian/a-people-at-risk/">leave racial terror behind</a>. </p>
<p>Together, these migrations enabled a few of the most enduring musical collaborations of the twentieth century. Thematically, the joint productions of black and Jewish musicians – Broadway productions of “<a href="https://www.pbs.org/wnet/broadway/shows/show-boat/">Show boat</a>&#8221; And &#8220;<a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2019/09/19/arts/music/porgy-bess-gershwin-metropolitan-opera.html">Porgy and Bess</a>”, Holiday’s performances with <a href="https://indianapublicmedia.org/afterglow/billie-holiday-big-bands.php">Benny Goodman</a> And <a href="https://billieholiday.com/timeline/she-teams-with-artie-shaw-becoming-the-first-black-woman-to-work-with-a-white-orchestra/">Artie Shaw</a> – tended to avoid the brutal reality of prejudice and as a substitute deal with the luxuries of unusual happiness and unhappiness.</p>
<p>“Strange Fruit” was different. The song looks unflinchingly on the “strange fruit” of the title: hanged, burned and mutilated flesh rotting on a tree.</p>
<p>Until the twentieth century, there have been white vigilante groups <a href="https://www.digitalhistory.uh.edu/disp_textbook.cfm?smtid=2&#038;psid=3178">Thousands of black Americans were murdered with impunity</a>: Lynching after which displaying their bodies as a terrorist spectacle.</p>
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              <span class="caption">A crowd gathers on the lynching of Thomas Shipp and Abram Smith in Marion, Indiana in 1930. This photo is taken into account the inspiration for the poem &#8220;Strange Fruit.&#8221;</span><br />
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<p>Seapol <a href="https://go.gale.com/ps/i.do?id=GALE%7CA391856050&#038;sid=googleScholar&#038;v=2.1&#038;it=r&#038;linkaccess=abs&#038;issn=07344392&#038;p=AONE&#038;sw=w&#038;userGroupName=anon%7Efa92718e&#038;aty=open-web-entry">first wrote down the lyrics and music of the song</a> on the back of a cabaret programme from 13 November 1938 – 4 days after Kristallnacht, <a href="https://encyclopedia.ushmm.org/content/en/article/kristallnacht">the night of the murderous anti-Jewish rampages</a> throughout Nazi Germany, which became the turning point for the Holocaust.</p>
<p>For Meeropol, a labor activist and secular Jew, <a href="https://www.blackagendareport.com/bar-book-forum-tracy-fessendens-religion-around-billie-holiday">Black and Jewish Americans marched shoulder to shoulder</a> for freedom from injustice. In one other poem <a href="https://forward.com/news/153734/strange-evolution-of-legendary-song/">He linked violence against blacks with the persecution of Jews</a>: </p>
<blockquote><p>I&#8217;m Jewish.<br />How can I determine that?<br />The lynched Negro<br />Reminds me well<br />I&#8217;m Jewish.</p></blockquote>
<h2>Black Christ</h2>
<p>Just as Meeropol linked prejudices against blacks and Jews, many black Christians also linked their very own suffering to that of the Hebrew slaves within the Bible – and to the suffering of Jesus. </p>
<p>Accordingly <a href="https://utsnyc.edu/blog/2018/04/28/james-cone/">Theologian James Cone</a>“Black ministers preached more about the death of Jesus than any other subject because they saw in Jesus’ suffering and persecution a parallel to their own experience of slavery, racial segregation, <a href="https://orbisbooks.com/products/the-cross-and-the-lynching-tree">and the lynch tree</a>.”</p>
<p>In the last decade wherein Holiday recorded “Strange Fruit,” <a href="https://doi.org/10.1086/JAAHv90n4p368">WEB Du Bois</a>, <a href="https://library.missouri.edu/news/special-collections/the-black-christ-by-countee-cullen-with-illustrations-by-charles-cullen">Count Cullen</a> And <a href="https://dc.lib.unc.edu/cdm/ref/collection/vir_museum/id/445">Langston Hughes</a> all works focus on the figure of <a href="https://www.npr.org/2012/11/19/165473220/color-of-christ-a-story-of-race-and-religion-in-america">crucified black Christ</a>.</p>
<p>Most African-American Christians <a href="https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2021/02/16/faith-among-black-americans/">belong to Protestant churches</a>but Holiday didn&#8217;t. As a baby she was baptized Catholic in a convent reform school, <a href="https://www.npr.org/2019/08/20/748647755/billie-full-of-grace">Baltimore&#39;s Good Shepherd House for Colored Girls</a>where she was sent twice by the court. She remained an ambivalent Catholic throughout her life.</p>
<h2>The filled cross</h2>
<p>Protestant churches often display the &#8220;empty&#8221; cross, which shows Jesus&#39; instrument of execution, but not his body. The message of the empty cross is resurrection and latest life. According to Christian history, Jesus was crucified, buried <a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke%2024&#038;version=KJV">and rose from the dead</a> to redeem humanity from sin.</p>
<p>In the Catholic world, one is more prone to find the &#8220;filled&#8221; cross: the body of Jesus nailed to the wood with outstretched arms, hands and feet. The crucifix emphasizes the agony of Jesus&#39; death and his solidarity with all who are suffering. </p>
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<p>The accomplished cross also conveys the message that the crucifixion of Christ – God in human form – just isn&#8217;t a one-time event. </p>
<p>&#8220;When [Meeropol] showed me this poem,” Holiday said of “Strange Fruit,” “I dug it out immediately” because it “<a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/174094990">seemed to explain everything that had killed Pop</a>.&#8221; Her father, jazz guitarist Clarence Holiday, died on the age of 39 while on tour in Texas. She believed he was denied life-saving treatment due to his race.  </p>
<p>Holiday&#39;s &#8220;Strange Fruit&#8221; evokes the finished cross and is a testament to the continued reality of lynching. &#8220;It still depresses me every time I sing it,&#8221; Holiday said. <a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/174094990">in her autobiography</a>&#8220;But I have to keep singing it&#8230; the things that killed him are still happening in the South.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="https://www.thehistorymakers.org/biography/vernon-jarrett-39">Journalist Vernon Jarrett</a> remembered seeing Holiday perform in 1947. She &#8220;sang this song <a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/889909123">as if it were real</a>like she&#39;d just witnessed a lynching,&#8221; Jarrett said of &#8220;Strange Fruit.&#8221; &#8220;There was a sense of resignation, like, &#39;these people are going to be in power for a long time and there&#39;s nothing I can do about it except put it in a song.&#39;&#8221;</p>
<h2>Current will</h2>
<p>Dealing with brokenness fairly than overcoming or overcoming it also describes Holiday&#39;s way of coping with others in precarious situations. Her apartment in Harlem, <a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/174094990">she said</a>was a “combination of a YMCA, a boarding house for poor musicians, a soup kitchen for anyone with a bad story, a community center and an after-hours bar.” </p>
<p>A papal encyclical from 1943 described the Church itself similarly: <a href="https://www.vatican.va/content/pius-xii/en/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-xii_enc_29061943_mystici-corporis-christi.html">a spot of shared pain, comfort and nourishment</a>. Anyone who had no money “could go there and eat”, poets and jazz singers <a href="https://www.penguin.co.uk/books/358782/with-billie-by-julia-blackburn/9780099483656">Babs Gonzales is recalled to Holiday&#39;s place</a>“She fed everyone in New York for four years.” </p>
<p>Holiday ended her live shows with &#8220;Strange Fruit&#8221; from 1939 until the last months of her life. By making the song her signature, she offered solidarity and a faithful testimony to racial violence and injustice, not a cure. But her testament had extraordinary power. </p>
<p>Shortly after the murder of George Floyd in 2020, Bruce Springsteen, a <a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2020/06/bruce-springsteens-playlist/613378/">Fellow Catholic with “concerns</a>,&#8221; made <a href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1HKLDuXfPr3CJgyw1CZSyS?si=-bwF-WvDS8mHgMhSzH8Q_Qand&#038;nd=1&#038;dlsi=915945b0221344eb">a playlist for America</a>. At the top of his list was “Strange Fruit.” </p>
<p>When asked if he was optimistic concerning the future, Springsteen responded within the spirit of Holiday: to witness, to not triumph. &#8220;I don&#39;t think anyone really knows where we&#39;re going from here,&#8221; <a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2020/06/bruce-springsteens-playlist/613378/">He told author David Brooks</a>But everyone “can already see that the status quo is not right. And that is progress.”</p>
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<p>Some Bay Area communities allow using so-called &#8220;safe and sane&#8221; fireworks reminiscent of handheld sparklers across the Fourth of July, although most municipalities prohibit anything apart from skilled, licensed shows. The devices are offered as an alternative choice to illegal fireworks that explode within the air or move along the bottom.</p>
<p>&#8220;They may be legal, but they are not safe,&#8221; Contra Costa Fire Inspector Matt Larson said at a news conference late last week. &#8220;Any one of these fireworks &#8211; including sparklers and small firecrackers &#8211; can start a fire. Any one of them can seriously injure you. Nothing is &#39;safe and reasonable.&#39;&#8221;</p>
<p>Firefighters spoke in regards to the dangers of fireworks of every kind ahead of the upcoming Fourth of July. With temperatures expected to soar this week just before the vacation, any fire danger may be very high, based on Chelsea Burkett, a spokeswoman for the Cal Fire Santa Clara Unit.</p>
<p>&#8220;The use of fireworks of any kind, whether safe and sensible or illegal, greatly increases the likelihood of a fire and can significantly spread it, especially with the dry vegetation and wind we are currently experiencing,&#8221; Burkett said.</p>
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<p>The incontrovertible fact that the vacation falls on a Thursday, thus avoiding a three-day weekend, may help curb using illegal fireworks, but nothing can stop it, said Lewis Broschard, chief of the Contra Costa Fire Department, who called the night of seemingly never-ending explosions &#8220;my least favorite holiday.&#8221;</p>
<p>The forecast high temperatures can even likely encourage many individuals to spend the day on the region&#39;s waterways, including lakes, rivers and the Delta &#8211; where many will bask in alcohol or drug use &#8211; and &#8220;that will be a dangerous mix,&#8221; Broschard said.</p>
<p>Every 12 months, firefighters and other public safety officials throughout the Bay Area and Northern California attempt to remind residents and visitors that using fireworks is one of the crucial dangerous things they will do.</p>
<p>&#8220;The most frustrating thing for us is all the emergencies we get called out to that really could have been prevented with a little bit of thought,&#8221; Burkett said Friday. &#8220;People think this won&#39;t happen to them. But every year it happens.&#8221;</p>
<p>All fireworks are illegal in Contra Costa County. The &#8220;safe and sane&#8221; variety, which incorporates sparklers and small firecrackers, are sold at local fundraisers and their use is permitted &#8211; with restrictions reminiscent of time and place &#8211; in Newark, Union City, Dublin, Gilroy, Pacifica and San Bruno. These fireworks, like all other fireworks, are prohibited within the remaining counties of Alameda, Santa Clara and San Mateo.</p>
<p>Despite warnings, firefighters say there remains to be an lively black marketplace for illegal fireworks and using each legal and illegal fireworks is increasing.</p>
<p>&#8220;It&#39;s going up, up, up,&#8221; said Broschard. &#8220;It doesn&#39;t seem to be letting up.&#8221;</p>
<p>In Dublin, local nonprofits began selling the protected and sensible variant on Friday and are permitted to accomplish that over the vacations. Homeowners are permitted to make use of them during that week-long period, but not in apartment buildings or on public spaces.</p>
<p>Gilroy is the one city in Santa Clara County that enables these fireworks. Residents should buy them at any licensed donation booth to support Gilroy&#39;s youth and nonprofit organizations. Purchasers must bring their ID to prove they&#8217;re over 18 and a Gilroy resident.</p>
<p>Buyers of legal fireworks are allowed to make use of them — <a href="https://www.cityofgilroy.org/DocumentCenter/View/15226/2024-Gilroy-Fireworks-Map-Less-Dense?bidId=">only in designated areas</a> — from Monday 9:00 a.m. to Thursday 10:00 p.m.</p>
<p>Two cities in San Mateo County allow protected and sensible fireworks displays: Pacifica and San Bruno.</p>
<p>In Pacifica, the devices could be used from 9 a.m. to 11 p.m. through Friday. San Bruno residents can legally set off their fireworks between noon and 9 p.m. through Wednesday and between noon and 11 p.m. on Thursday.</p>
<p>Regardless of when the devices are deployed, their use is at all times dangerous, Burkett said. This 12 months, climate and weather conditions have increased the danger.</p>
<p>While this 12 months&#39;s wet winter helped vegetation grow within the Bay Area, that tall brush is now particularly vulnerable to fireside, Burkett said.</p>
<p>She and other firefighters urged people to benefit from the fireworks at considered one of the various skilled shows happening within the Bay Area skies Thursday night.</p>
<p>Burkett recommends staying near fireworks in order that fires could be quickly extinguished. Fireworks must also be set off away from vegetation. Fireworks must also be set off in areas with loads of space between buildings and brush, reminiscent of driveways.</p>
<p>Children should never handle fireworks unsupervised, officials said.</p>
<p>&#8220;This should go without saying, but every year we see a young person get injured because they are not supervised,&#8221; Larson said. &#8220;Unfortunately, this happens every year.&#8221;</p>
<p>The same goes for water emergencies, officials said. They urged residents to think twice before heading to an area that might be crowded, as the vacation is one of the crucial popular days for recreational boaters. They reminded boaters that drinking on the water is just as illegal as driving a automotive. Alcohol and jet skiing are also prohibited.</p>
<p>&#8220;The problem with water is that it can happen in a flash,&#8221; Broschard said. &#8220;People can get into trouble in a flash.&#8221;</p>
<p>Due to the weather, Bay Area beaches and waterways could also be more crowded than usual on the weekends surrounding the vacation and on the vacation itself. The Fourth of July is even forecast to chill barely after increasing heat on Tuesday and Wednesday.</p>
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		<title>Psychedelic holidays are trending. Here&#039;s why</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Jun 2024 14:08:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[By Ksenia Prints, Food Drink Life More and more individuals are selecting to go away 5-star resorts and cruises behind and take a special type of vacation that involves mind-altering drugs, however the legal and physical consequences of this kind of travel will be unclear. Consider for a moment whether you ought to take a [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p><strong>By Ksenia Prints, Food Drink Life</strong></p>
<p>More and more individuals are selecting to go away 5-star resorts and cruises behind and take a special type of vacation that involves mind-altering drugs, however the legal and physical consequences of this kind of travel will be unclear.</p>
<p>Consider for a moment whether you ought to take a rather different trip in your next vacation. You and your fellow travelers will travel unimaginable distances without moving much. You won&#39;t give you the option to take any luggage with you &#8211; unless your emotional baggage counts &#8211; or bring home souvenirs. In fact, you could not even give you the option to explain the trip to people back home.</p>
<p>Despite this strangeness, or perhaps due to it, lots of the travelers who&#8217;ve chosen psychedelic vacations view them as life-changing experiences well worth the money. But others indicate that these retreats have a difficult relationship with indigenous communities &#8211; and so they worry concerning the potential dangers of consuming mind-altering substances without proper guidance.</p>
<p>Why accomplish that many tourists turn to psychedelic tourism and what are a few of the hottest substances utilized by these <a href="https://fooddrinklife.com/caribbean-wellness-retreats/">Wellness retreats</a>Should travelers be concerned concerning the safety, ethics, or legality of those experiences? Read on to search out out.</p>
<h4>What does a typical psychedelic vacation include?</h4>
<p>Sia-Luna Estrella, a <a href="https://www.sialanuestrella.com/">Healer and Shaman</a>knows exactly how she got here to guide psychedelic retreats. &#8220;It was a higher calling from the sacred mountain here in Cuzco,&#8221; she recalls. She felt called to maneuver to Peru and later invited others to accompany her on retreats to South America, South Africa and other places.</p>
<p>Estrella said goodbye to her automobile, her job and her apartment with a sea view and dared to begin over. &#8220;It brought me back to the truth of who I was and what my greatest purpose is here on earth.&#8221;</p>
<p>Over the years, Estrella has seen over 100 participants come and go. She doesn&#39;t at all times use psychedelics in her retreats &#8211; sometimes she works only with cacao ceremonies and the energy of the land &#8211; but she understands the importance of handling these powerful substances properly.</p>
<h4>Herbal medicines</h4>
<p>&#8220;We don&#39;t think of them as psychedelics, but as plant teachers and plant medicines. They have their own consciousness,&#8221; explains Estrella. She works primarily with the San Pedro cactus, a plant that incorporates the psychoactive substance known locally as wachuma or mescaline.</p>
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<p>Mescaline is just one among several psychedelic substances that will be experienced during retreats. Peyote, one other cactus that also incorporates mescaline, is a well-liked selection, as is ayahuasca, a psychoactive tea. Toad-derived drugs will also be used, corresponding to 5-MeO-DMT, which will also be derived from plants, and kambo, a toxic toad secretion that&#8217;s applied to the skin through small burns.</p>
<p>But perhaps probably the most well-known substance utilized in psychedelic retreats is psilocybin, also generally known as “mushrooms” – to not be confused with <a href="https://immigrantstable.com/mushroom-marinara-sauce/">normal mushrooms</a>. Accordingly <a href="https://www.thrillist.com/travel/nation/magic-mushroom-retreats">Thrillist</a>Psilocybin will be experienced on vacation all around the world, from beach ceremonies in Jamaica – where psilocybin is unregulated – to collaborative research projects within the Netherlands.</p>
<p>The recent emergence of wellness tourism is a brand recent phenomenon, but psychedelics have been utilized by indigenous communities for 1000&#8217;s of years. Robyn Landau writes for <a href="https://trippin.world/feature/the-ethics-around-psychedelic-tourism">Trippin</a>noted that the growing demand for psychedelics could quickly grow to be unsustainable and risk destroying traditional indigenous practices.</p>
<p>Landau explains that peyote has grow to be scarce in Mexico as a result of tourism, agriculture and mining. Considering the plant takes 15 years to grow, it is a cause for concern. Landau suggests that travelers who want to profit from indigenous medicine should take the time to learn concerning the communities that administer these remedies and how you can be respectful of traditional practices.</p>
<h4>Who will likely be your fellow travelers?</h4>
<p>Why might someone be drawn to a psychedelic retreat? Some travelers simply need to have recent experiences, while others are available hopes of coping with larger issues like depression, anxiety, trauma, or addiction.</p>
<p>In an interview with <a href="https://www.travelweekly.com/Travel-News/Travel-Agent-Issues/Good-trips-psychedelic-wellness-tourism">Travel weekly</a>Justin Townsend, CEO and Head Facilitator at MycoMeditations, highlighted the variety of participants at their retreats. &#8220;A typical retreat is usually about 50% women and 50% men, and we have everything from blue collar to white collar people from all sorts of professions, people from their mid-30s to their 60s,&#8221; Townsend told Travel Weekly.</p>
<h4>Psychedelics and mental health</h4>
<p>In recent years, there was increasing debate about how psychedelics can treat mental illness, as evidenced by Michael Pollan&#39;s 2018 book, How to Change Your Mind, which addresses the problem. On the opposite hand, critics have also identified the risks related to psychedelic use.</p>
<p>The <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2021/11/25/travel/psychedelic-retreat-ayahuasca.html">New York Times</a> warned that psychedelics &#8220;can cause psychosis or long-term mental health problems, especially in patients with a predisposition to mental illness.&#8221; The same article also addresses the robberies, sexual assaults, and even deaths which have occurred at psychedelic retreats.</p>
<p>Estrella is well aware of the risks of misusing traditional medicine. &#8220;Many people in Western society go into the jungle for three weeks and claim they are shamans and are qualified to work with this medicine. That is incredibly dangerous,&#8221; she says firmly. But she also believes within the healing effects of psychedelics. &#8220;The medicine helps you process trauma, limiting beliefs and conditioning. If there are answers, the medicine helps you find those answers within yourself.&#8221;</p>
<h4>Wait, is that this all legal?</h4>
<p>Should you call your lawyer before picking up your passport? To give a classic lawyer answer: Well, it depends.</p>
<p>“In some countries, especially in South America, psychedelic retreats can be legal or legal-like, as far as I understand,” says Marc Z. Goldgrub, lawyer at <a href="http://www.greeneconomylaw.com/">Professional Society for Green Economy Law</a>. The firm focuses on psychedelics, green business and housing. Goldgrub also runs the web site PsychedelicLaw.ca. Estrella confirms this answer.</p>
<p>&#8220;But in the United States and Canada, psychedelic retreats are generally just illegal,&#8221; says Goldrub. In these parts of North America, &#8220;there is no 100% legal psilocybin, MDMA or ayahuasca retreat that is open to the public. However, some retreats are marketed with an impressive veneer of professionalism that falsely suggests the opposite to those who don&#39;t know better.&#8221;</p>
<p>In addition to regulating the psychedelic substances themselves, Goldgrub explains, there can also be civil liability concerns to contemplate. &#8220;If something bad happens to someone, users can be sued under tort law.&#8221;</p>
<h4>Final thoughts</h4>
<p>So, is a psychedelic retreat your next vacation? Some travelers will little question be wanting to experience these drugs for themselves. Others will likely be content to calm down with a replica of Aldous Huxley&#39;s The Doors of Perception and a cup of <a href="https://mymocktailforest.com/butterfly-pea-flower-tea-recipe/">normal tea</a>.</p>
<p>One thing is of course: As the demand for wellness continues to rise, psychedelic retreats are prone to grow to be more popular. But will they lose their cool factor? Only time will tell.</p>
<p>Despite the sometimes difficult elements of leading psychedelic retreats, Estrella maintains her characteristic calm and optimism with regards to introducing recent travelers to the world of medication ceremonies.</p>
<p>&#8220;It&#39;s normal for people to be excited and nervous,&#8221; she says. &#8220;But as long as they come with an open heart, it&#39;s an incredible experience.&#8221;</p>
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<p>Because burnout within the workplace is so common, some employers are considering mandatory vacations, closing entire offices, and other ways to encourage workaholic employees to take break day.</p>
<p>Only a small variety of employers – 8.7% – now require their employees to take a minimum holiday, and a few of these have legal or regulatory reasons, comparable to <a href="https://www.ifebp.org/resources---news/survey-reports/paid-leave-in-the-workplace-survey-report" target="_blank" rel="noopener">a report for 2024</a> from the International Foundation of Employee Benefit Plans. Still, employers are increasingly concerned with methods to get their employees to take break day, says Julie Stich, vp of content on the International Foundation of Employee Benefit Plans. </p>
<p>And for good reason. A recent Harris poll <a href="https://theharrispoll.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/05/OOO-Culture-Report-May-2023.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Opinion poll</a> found that 78% of Americans don&#8217;t use the utmost amount of paid leave granted by their employer<strong>. </strong>The average employee took 15 paid vacation days last yr, although nearly half of them received more vacation days from their employer. </p>
<p>Yet burnout rates remain high. According to a 2023 survey by Eagle Hill Consulting, 45 percent of American employees report experiencing burnout at work. This figure is even higher amongst employees ages 18 to 32 (52%) and ladies (48%).</p>
<p>&#8220;There is more discussion about mandatory vacation today than there was in the past. There are many cases where companies report that their employees do not take vacation,&#8221; said Stich. </p>
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<p>Here&#39;s what firms and employees combating these issues must take into consideration.</p>
<h3 class="ArticleBody-smallSubtitle">Tracking vacation usage and worker attitudes</h3>
<p>An vital first step is to grasp the corporate&#39;s place to begin, says Wende Smith, HR director at BambooHR. This might help firms develop a plan for the long run. Is the issue specific to a selected department or is it broader?</p>
<p>“If you don’t pursue it, you won’t understand what your problem is or if you even have a problem,” Smith said. </p>
<p>Before implementing comprehensive policy changes, it is crucial to deal with the underlying issues that could be stopping employees from taking break day to recharge.</p>
<p>These could include heavy workloads, a scarcity of adequate staffing and the necessity to coordinate vacation times with other employees, in line with the survey by the International Foundation of Employee Benefit Plans.</p>
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<p>If employers are really serious about getting their employees to take vacation, they should seek advice from employees, discover their reasons for doing so and address them, Smith said. Managers also must set a superb example for his or her employees in the case of taking vacation, she said.</p>
<p>And when employees take vacation, they need to respect their free time, advises Stich. &#8220;Don&#39;t constantly write them messages while they&#39;re on vacation.&#8221;</p>
<h3 class="ArticleBody-smallSubtitle">Mandatory paid leave: benefits and drawbacks</h3>
<p>Professions comparable to pilots, air traffic controllers, transportation and certain finance jobs could have mandatory leave by law or industry best practice, Stich said. But other industries could have more flexibility in setting these policies. Mandatory policies could be helpful because they force the problem of leave, but they can even bring challenges, comparable to resistance and enforcement from employees, said Jonathan Gove, senior consultant at Eagle Hill Consulting.</p>
<p>&#8220;There may be some people who view their holiday as a kind of savings account, especially if it is paid out on termination,&#8221; says Kate Derby, Western Region Practice Manager of WTW&#39;s specialist absence, disability management and life insurance practice.</p>
<p>In addition, mandatory vacation policies could be complicated to administer. If an employer desires to implement them, they need to determine what number of days off should be available, says Stich. Is it one break day per thirty days, in the future per quarter, or five days off in a row? The use of blackout periods also must be considered to permit a business to operate properly &#8211; for instance, during tax season for accountants or three weeks before school starts in a pediatrician&#39;s office when back-to-school checkups require all employees to be readily available.</p>
<p>To avoid headaches when scheduling work, firms could insist that employees tell their supervisor by a certain date which week they wish to take off. If they don&#39;t, the supervisor must determine the length of the absence along with the worker, says Stich.</p>
<p>Companies also should be prepared to fairly regulate who gets one of the best weeks, otherwise they may get into legal trouble or face problems with dissatisfied and disengaged employees, said Mary Will, deputy general counsel and partner at Faegre Drinker. Employers should be prepared to cope with complaints that &#8220;Joe always gets the week between Christmas and New Year&#39;s and nobody else, and we don&#39;t think that&#39;s fair,&#8221; she said.</p>
<h3 class="ArticleBody-smallSubtitle">Federal, state and native law</h3>
<p>There is not any federal law requiring employers to supply paid leave, but there are some state and native laws that apply. Different states even have different requirements for paying for unused paid leave, which could be complicated to administer with a compulsory leave policy, said Jill Kahn Marshall, an employment attorney and partner at Reavis Page Jump. Before implementing a brand new policy, firms should seek the advice of with an attorney to ensure they don&#39;t inadvertently violate state and native laws, she said.</p>
<h3 class="ArticleBody-smallSubtitle">Methods to advertise more leisure time from work</h3>
<p>Instead of specializing in mandatory leave, some firms are in search of less bureaucratic and more employee-friendly alternatives. Many high-tech firms in California, for instance, have implemented shutdowns that typically occur the week of July 4 or between Christmas and New Year&#39;s, WTW&#39;s Derby said. &#8220;Even the tech companies that have unlimited paid leave are closing their operations. It&#39;s a chance to catch up and take a breather because everyone has the same week off,&#8221; Derby said. </p>
<p>More firms are also abandoning their unlimited vacation policies, which haven&#8217;t all the time worked as expected. In some cases, employees have abused the policy, but often they take far less vacation than once they had a set variety of days. As a result, some employers have returned to, or are considering returning to, policies where employees can only accrue a set variety of days &#8211; often two to a few weeks per yr, Will said.</p>
<p>Sander VanderWerf, senior vp of Aon&#39;s vacation and life insurance division, says some employers should consider a vacation plan that requires employees to make use of it or lose the times. &#8220;Employees are more likely to use more time if the time doesn&#39;t carry over at the end of the year,&#8221; she wrote in an email.</p>
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